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Hi
My GF has a stalker... ;-)
she knows him an i know him
he is driving by her house at least 40-50 times a day.
he is calling her home phone, cell phone and work phone at least 60 times a
day. sometimes it's 5-6 times a minute.
it's really annoying. no matter what we say he won't stop.
what can we do?
thanks
Peter
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Report his actions to the strong arm of the law, problem solved.
Hi
My GF has a stalker... ;-)
she knows him an i know him
he is driving by her house at least 40-50 times a day.
he is calling her home phone, cell phone and work phone at least 60 times
a
day. sometimes it's 5-6 times a minute.
it's really annoying. no matter what we say he won't stop.
what can we do?
thanks
Peter
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Report his actions to the strong arm of the law, problem solved.
I was thinking about it but what will they do? give him a warning?
i'm afraid that he may do something stupid after that..
what does she have to do to ger a restraining order for him or something
like that?
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Report his actions to the strong arm of the law, problem solved.
I was thinking about it but what will they do? give him a warning?
i'm afraid that he may do something stupid after that..
what does she have to do to ger a restraining order for him or something
like that?
If the police do catch her on the act, or you have some kind of solid proof
she/he is stalking you, the police will put a restraint order on the person,
if she does it again, shes going to jail.
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Buy a gun, apply for a concealed carry permit, take a handgun training
class. I recommend the Smith and Wesson Airweight for a beginner carry gun.
Stay away from semiautos. A Mossberg 590 at the bedside does wonders
during a home invasion.
Sure, you can apply for a protection from abuse order (or the equivalent in
your state). In fact, it will look good if she ends up shooting the
slimeball.
There is a good book called "How not to be victim." It's geared towards
women, and it's particularly informative for women in situations like you
described.
Hi
My GF has a stalker... ;-)
she knows him an i know him
he is driving by her house at least 40-50 times a day.
he is calling her home phone, cell phone and work phone at least 60 times
a
day. sometimes it's 5-6 times a minute.
it's really annoying. no matter what we say he won't stop.
what can we do?
thanks
Peter
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Unless your daddy works for police, don't expect much to happen.
Report his actions to the strong arm of the law, problem solved.
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Unless your daddy works for police, don't expect much to happen.
That's what I was afraid of...
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If the stalker daddys does work for the police (wich i assume your guessing
lol), if you do take matters to your own hand and buy a gun and shoot the
him/her, youll really be introuble with the law. Remember he can make your
self defense plea look like you straight commited man slaughther.
Unless your daddy works for police, don't expect much to happen.
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There's not a whole lot you can do, except document everything that the
stalker does. If you are getting phone harrassment, call the phone company
and let them know, try to change your number and make it unlisted. Also
learn some self-defense.
Regards
LJ
Buy a gun, apply for a concealed carry permit, take a handgun training
class. I recommend the Smith and Wesson Airweight for a beginner carry
gun.
Stay away from semiautos. A Mossberg 590 at the bedside does wonders
during a home invasion.
Sure, you can apply for a protection from abuse order (or the equivalent
in
your state). In fact, it will look good if she ends up shooting the
slimeball.
There is a good book called "How not to be victim." It's geared towards
women, and it's particularly informative for women in situations like you
described.
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Some states have anti-stalking laws. In some states, you can swear out a
criminal complaint at the DA's office. Check your county website.
Another course of action is to get an injunction baring the guy from calling
her or approaching her. If he violates this, he can be held in contempt of
court and arrested without trial. This is very effective and often the
most productive way to put him in jail.
You have to be careful when you show force against a stalker. Her initial
actions may cause him to escalate his. This is when she in the most danger.
That is why I said buy a gun, get a concealed carry permit, and take a self
defense class. I don't have time to go into the psychology of stalkers and
asymmetric force. Most women in this situation tend not to do anything
anyway. That's the sad part.
If she needs legal aid, look for a "women's rights group." These are often
lesbian-run groups of man-haters, but they can help with the injunction.
She could have a TRO on Tuesday, which would be delivered by the sheriff
that day. It might wake the slime ball up.
Unless your daddy works for police, don't expect much to happen.
That's what I was afraid of...
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