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y husband has suffered in too many ways to mention. He was and is a chronic pain patient. He has neurological, etc. problems now which are obvious to anyone, and I wont go into here who or what we think are responsible for them. To make a long story shorter, he had to hire an attorney who I will refer to as A, and the firm A works for to get his medical records from a MD who I will refer to as MD X, and others associated with MD X when they would not send them all. Attorney A wanted to see the ones they did send. Attorney A formerly worked for the risk management division of a hospital. Attorney A says that the approval of one of the law firms partners is needed to do something called a contingency agreement. Attorney A talked to the partner in the firm and told him just from the records A has seen that any MD would be hard pressed to say you weren't on too much medication." Attorney A told him that "the partner was very receptive and would move him to the contingency agreement when he gets the certificate of merit." Attorney A indicated they have an MD in another state that they use for the certificate of merit, who is in the same field of practice, and would send my husband to this MD. Attorney A said my husband has to pay for this MD along with getting the medical records and associated costs. There are a lot of tricky things MD X has done, along with Xs associates, as well as other issues that my husband thinks need to be addressed NOW because he thinks that evidence is disappearing with time. At first Attorney A couldnt help him to word a response to a "draft" letter of referral to a new MD that MD X wrote, which looks like was sent to my husband for approval or something by MD X. This letter from MD X was written with one false statement after another that MD X knows are false, misleading, and partly true but also not true, and more. This letter should have never been sent to my husband in the first place. My husband never requested such a letter. Attorney A told us that the reason Attorney A would not help us word a response to this letter was because its a life issue." Attorney A made this refusal statement before Attorney A had that "receptive" conversation with As partner (as I referred to earlier). AFTER As receptive conversation with the partner, A now wanted to help with us wording a response to MD Xs so called "referral" draft letter. Another odd thing that happened is that Attorney A had been planning to fax the response letter to MD X on my husbands behalf. Then a couple of weeks later A faxed the letter to us for our approval and then told US to go ahead and fax the letter to MD X if we were satisfied with it but to first cut off the top of the page that indicated that we had received the response letter via fax from As law firm. I cant help but wonder why A decided not to fax the letter for my husband and also decided that the letter shouldnt in anyway indicate that it had come from As law firm. My husband has a lot of trouble communicating and understanding things now. And I can go completely absent minded and I cant explain why except for the shock of watching whats happened to him, to our lives, and seeing how far MDs will and are going to cover things up. They are altering information, helping one another when they know the other MD, and, believe it or not, even if they dont know the other MD in any way. MD X is rewriting my husbands medical history over the phone too, which has everybody baffled. There are other things too that are pretty hard to believe, that I would have had a hard time believing before going through this. That is a shock in itself. Anyway I shouldn't be talking about me. Like I said, my husbands brain is a mess, and he is trying to identify how and why miscommunication, misunderstanding and other things occur when he talks. It seems like we are making a 1 1/2 hour appointment or long phone conversation with Attorney A every week or 2 because things either arent addressed in a way that my husband understands or arent addressed in a way that is clear to us or is to our satisfaction. Combine that with my husbands or my own inability to comprehend what Attorney A is really saying with all that careful lawyerly wording. My husband asked if he could record his appointment to help him go over and understand what was said in the appointment. Attorney A said that question has never been asked, I will go check. Attorney A left the room for a while then came back and said no one was around, they werent in their offices but I checked and we are not comfortable with that. There seems to be a lot of flip flopping going on with Attorney A. One moment As giving the impression my husband has a good expectation of a case and hes made to feel encouraged, the next time we talk to A the wording and feeling of things seems to change as ewll as actions Evidently you dont just need a certificate of merit against MD X or others, you also need to prove the damage came from MD X. Keep in mind its obvious to ANYONE something is very wrong with my husband in a major life disabling way. Obvious to ANYONE! In a phone conversation I had with Attorney A just prior to our last appointment, A tells me by phone theres another MD they know who they want my husband to see now Its a forensic psychiatrist. Attorney A said the words its the partners POLICY and that the partner REQUIRES it for everybody. Attorney A let me know that my husband would be responsible for the cost. Attorney A then wanted to set up an appointment and asked what days are good and whats my husbands schedule? At our last appointment I asked if the forensic psychiatrist could issue a certificate of merit. Attorney A told me no. I then said why cant he get the certificate of merit first and then see the forensic psychiatrist? I asked if this was needed legally before we can get a certificate of merit or is it just a policy requirement of the firm. Attorney A responded by saying Oh, you misunderstood. Its just something the partner suggested. Its not a policy. I couldnt believe Attorney A said its not policy when that was EXACTLY the word that was used the first time this issue was discussed. That word along with the word requirement. I balked at it and now its just a suggestion. My husband started trying to ask A something that in hind sight to me could have sounded like he was trying to ask A if a bare bones discovery costs $20,000 of As money on contingency like A told him, and A only gets a third of a judgment, what happens to the victim if an attorney estimates total damages at $20,000 and would an attorney still take the case; and that in the real world
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