|
A harasser harms his own situation more than anyone else's
This applies to every person, group, government, government agency, etc.
http://members.fcc.net/workgroup5/country/harassment.html
How Harassment works
A harasser harms his own situation more than anyone else's
If a person harasses someone, the person doing the harassing always
harms himself much more than the person he is trying to harass.
This is because he is the one who is doing it. The harassment is
coming from him. He is the one creating and pushing the harassment. The
harasser's harassment is his.
No one needs to get back at a harasser
Though the person being harassed may suffer some harm, it is the
person trying to harm someone else who damages his own situation much more
than anyone else's. This is because he is the one doing the harassing.
If a person doesn't harass or try to harm anyone, he will do fine in
life. He has nothing to worry about. It's like this with everything in life.
----------------------------------------------------------------
Derogatory comments
The same is true if a person makes derogatory comments about another
person. It shows that the person saying the comments is having problems in
his own life more than anything else, not the person it's being said about.
Think about it, if a person is doing well in life, would he go
around talking bad about other people? Certainly not. He wouldn't waste his
time.
Many of us know a person who seems to always make derogatory
comments about other people. Ever notice that kind of person has few
friends? It is the person who constantly makes derogatory comments about
other people who harms himself much more than the person he is talking
about.
This is different from someone who, for example, says "Joey broke
his leg last week. I hope he is okay". This type of statement shows
compassion in describing a problem, it shows caring for the person. It
offers good will and hopes the person gets better.
----------------------------------------------------------------
Lying harms the person who lies more than anyone else
This is because if a person creates lies he is basically saying
"lies and deception are good and okay". Therefore, he is subject to this
himself more than anyone else.
What comes from a person is of that person. So, if a person who lies
comes across deception in the future, because he already engages in lies, he
finds it harder to know what is true. If a person lies he tends to confuse
himself more than anyone else.
So, if he comes across some deception in the future, because he
already engages in lies, he finds it harder to know what is true. If a
person lies he tends to confuse himself more than anyone else.
When a person is honest in what he says and does, he can more easily
see what is honest and true in general. A person who is honest and
trustworthy has fewer problems in life. His mind is calm, clear and
carefree. Honesty allows people to do better, to play music, run businesses
and have more fun in life.
A person who lies a lot becomes unable to use high technology
|
| |
| |
|
