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Do I have a chance of preventing my Ex from moving with my son



taegu2@aol.com
5/22/2005 2:19:53 PM


I am a 47 year old who has been divorced for about a year. I live in
Texas. When we were divorced, we utilized a single lawyer of my Ex's
choice. My ex and I are joint managing conservators of my son,
although she is the custodial parent. My ex is planning a move to
another city in Texas 5 hours drive away from me. My ex says she wants
to move to pursue career ambitions. Quite honestly, although there may
be some truth to this, I also believe much of the desire to move have
nothing to do with this. My ex is a nurse, and there are numerous
nursing jobs in virtually every city. The bottom line however is that
I honestly do not think it is in my son's best interest to move 5 hours
away from me. I have taken advantage of every opportunity to utlize my
visitation times, and indeed, have frequently taken him on weekends
when my ex needed to be out of town. I pay $1700 per month child
support, and also pay $2000 a month asset allocation payments to my EX.
Currently my ex is not working, and living on the payments that I
make. The divorce decree currently states that my ex has the right to
determine residence of her and the child. I know that I would need to
have the decree modified in order to prevent her from leaving. Do I
have any chance of doing this since the current decree is quite
explicit that she has the right to determine the geographic location
she chooses to reside. Quite frankly since we had a single lawyer, I
did not even know that this issue could be addressed. More
importantly, will a judge modify the decree simply because it really is
in the best interest of my son to have his father close by and
accessible?
 
 
Paul Cassel
5/23/2005 3:32:45 PM


taegu2@aol.com wrote:
[ex-wife planning on moving 5 hours away removing son from OP's easy
access, visitation, etc. Parenting plan allows this]
More
importantly, will a judge modify the decree simply because it really is
in the best interest of my son to have his father close by and
accessible?
Yes. The court's job is to act in the best interests of your son. You
seem to be solvent, so why haven't you hired a matrimonial attorney
already and asked him not IF you can, but HOW to accomplish what you
want? After reading your replies here, get yourself out and hire an
attorney who will act in your and your son's interest.
The rub here, and the rub is great, is that you will need to convince
the court that it is in the best interests of the child to be near both
parents. Your case is damaged by her saying she's moving for employment
opportunity, but that can be blunted or even negated if you demonstrate
to the court that her employment opportunities don't differ, or don't
differ substantially between locales. Even if you can demonstrate that
there is employment for her locally, it'll help enormously.
The short answer to your question is, "Yes, it's possible, but no
guarantees". The mechanics of getting it done need a lawyer.
-paul
ianal
 
 
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