taegu2@aol.com wrote: [ex-wife planning on moving 5 hours away removing son from OP's easy access, visitation, etc. Parenting plan allows this]
More importantly, will a judge modify the decree simply because it really is in the best interest of my son to have his father close by and accessible?
Yes. The court's job is to act in the best interests of your son. You seem to be solvent, so why haven't you hired a matrimonial attorney already and asked him not IF you can, but HOW to accomplish what you want? After reading your replies here, get yourself out and hire an attorney who will act in your and your son's interest. The rub here, and the rub is great, is that you will need to convince the court that it is in the best interests of the child to be near both parents. Your case is damaged by her saying she's moving for employment opportunity, but that can be blunted or even negated if you demonstrate to the court that her employment opportunities don't differ, or don't differ substantially between locales. Even if you can demonstrate that there is employment for her locally, it'll help enormously. The short answer to your question is, "Yes, it's possible, but no guarantees". The mechanics of getting it done need a lawyer. -paul ianal
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