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hello,
i tried to post this earlier, but i got an error, not, sure if it will
get posted or not so i am posting it again, sorry for any duplicate
postings
my husband wants to get a separation. He also wants to buy another
house(cabin), have his mothers 's name , my name and his name on the
purchase agreement and deed. Take a mortgage loan out on our house,
pay it off then the rest of the loan be on the new house(cabin). my
question is if we get a divorce, and i want to sell both houses, can i
force her to sell, or can i put in the purchase agreement or some
other agreement with her that if my husband and i divorce she must
sell if we want to?, she will not be on the loan or pay any money for
it, her and her husband will just live in it for six months out of the
year then live in their house in Florida the rest of the year. my
husband wants to do this for an investment. But he is also the one who
want the separation, He also said that if i do not do this he will
surely divorce me. I work full time but only make $20.00 an hour, i
cannot afford any extra bills if we get a divorce. Also, he owns 2
houses he had before we were married, we rent them out, our children
and i go do lots of work on them, painting , plumbing, landcaping etc.
we have been married for almost 9 years, my name is not on those
houses, will I be able to get 1/2 of them or their value in a
settlement. Also, will i be able to get part of his pension, when he
retires in 3 years.
Please, help, i am just looking out for my children's and mine
financial future.(and yes i am devastated that he wants a
separation/divorce, i love my husband)
thank you
a.r.
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alannfam@yahoo.com wrote in
news:c0d9690f.0401270937.307b9bf@posting.google.com:
hello,
i tried to post this earlier, but i got an error, not, sure if it will
get posted or not so i am posting it again, sorry for any duplicate
postings
my husband wants to get a separation. He also wants to buy another
house(cabin), have his mothers 's name , my name and his name on the
purchase agreement and deed. Take a mortgage loan out on our house,
pay it off then the rest of the loan be on the new house(cabin). my
question is if we get a divorce, and i want to sell both houses, can i
force her to sell, or can i put in the purchase agreement or some
other agreement with her that if my husband and i divorce she must
sell if we want to?, she will not be on the loan or pay any money for
it, her and her husband will just live in it for six months out of the
year then live in their house in Florida the rest of the year. my
husband wants to do this for an investment. But he is also the one who
want the separation, He also said that if i do not do this he will
surely divorce me. I work full time but only make $20.00 an hour, i
cannot afford any extra bills if we get a divorce. Also, he owns 2
houses he had before we were married, we rent them out, our children
and i go do lots of work on them, painting , plumbing, landcaping etc.
we have been married for almost 9 years, my name is not on those
houses, will I be able to get 1/2 of them or their value in a
settlement. Also, will i be able to get part of his pension, when he
retires in 3 years.
Please, help, i am just looking out for my children's and mine
financial future.(and yes i am devastated that he wants a
separation/divorce, i love my husband)
thank you
a.r.
In my opinion, you'd be crazy to enter into any kind of financial
entaglement with a man who wants a separation or divorce. Divorce is
complicated and painful enough without additional 3-party investment deals!
If my spouse ever said to me, "Do this or I'll divorce you!" my first
action would be to find a good lawyer and get the process started. Even
though you may be unsure of your financial future, you deserve better than
this guy.
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alannfam@yahoo.com wrote in message ...
hello,
i tried to post this earlier, but i got an error, not, sure if it will
get posted or not so i am posting it again, sorry for any duplicate
postings
my husband wants to get a separation. He also wants to buy another
house(cabin), have his mothers 's name , my name and his name on the
purchase agreement and deed. Take a mortgage loan out on our house,
pay it off then the rest of the loan be on the new house(cabin). my
question is if we get a divorce, and i want to sell both houses, can i
force her to sell, or can i put in the purchase agreement or some
other agreement with her that if my husband and i divorce she must
sell if we want to?, she will not be on the loan or pay any money for
it, her and her husband will just live in it for six months out of the
year then live in their house in Florida the rest of the year. my
husband wants to do this for an investment. But he is also the one who
want the separation, He also said that if i do not do this he will
surely divorce me. I work full time but only make $20.00 an hour, i
cannot afford any extra bills if we get a divorce. Also, he owns 2
houses he had before we were married, we rent them out, our children
and i go do lots of work on them, painting , plumbing, landcaping etc.
we have been married for almost 9 years, my name is not on those
houses, will I be able to get 1/2 of them or their value in a
settlement. Also, will i be able to get part of his pension, when he
retires in 3 years.
Please, help, i am just looking out for my children's and mine
financial future.(and yes i am devastated that he wants a
separation/divorce, i love my husband)
thank you
a.r.
You need some really good advice really fast. Not only about this
cockamammie plan to . . .ahem. . .screw you out of your 50% financial
interest in your house, but on divorce, separations, and your general
dealings with this guy.
You can afford a lawyer, especially if he ends up paying for the lawyer.
Actually, I don't think you can afford not to have a lawyer.
You might want to wander down to a shelter for battered women or the like.
Not for refuge but for a bit of free or low cost advice. They usually have
some really knowledgeable folks working in places like that.
Regards
Old Al
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